soaring on wings of joy

the amount of time we waste thinking over the people we hate
cursing them.. worrying over imaginary or real wrongs..
if we spent even half of that time thinking of our loved ones
this world would be a much better place to live in

each one of us is a product of our circumstances, environment
heredity surroundings etc.. can only think feel and reach accordingly
living maybe in our own private hells because sometimes we are incapable
of changing our basic natures.. 
shouldn't this stop us from judging others and instead thank God 
we had a better deal in life.. maybe after all we might be reacting in the very
same manner if we were in that person's shoes
one needs our compassion support and understanding
more than our censure

such a short life we have .. don't know what's going to happen in the next
moment.. and yet we are so busy involving ourselves in trivialities.. 
in making each other's lives miserable.. we argue with each other
scold and fight.. forgetting absolutely that it is just a momentary issue we have
a problem with.. not the person himself.. we have to fight this negativity
not embrace hatred.. how much better would it be if we could just turn
around and tell that person 'yes' i don't like this but you are loved very much

when you've done something really wrong or simply made a mistake
isn't that the time you most need that hug and an 'i love you'
shouldn't that just make everything alright.. and if you questioned
each heart.. there is nothing else that would help..